Two mothers' philosophy of apple
When everyone was born, the first thing they saw was their mother. The earliest acceptance was from the mother's education. But when people grow up, some become politicians, businessmen, scientists, engineers; others are fallen into tramps, drug addicts, perverts, murderers…
A well-known criminal psychologist in the United States did an interesting experiment in order to study the mother's influence on a person's life. He has selected 50 successful people in the United States. These people are elites in their respective industries, have achieved outstanding achievements, and at the same time selected 50 people with criminal records. The psychologists wrote letters to them, please They talk about the impact of mother's education on themselves.
After half a month, the psychologist received a large number of letters, two of which were very interesting. They all tell the story of the mother giving them apples when they were young. A prisoner from the Tsuen Wan Prison in California wrote in the letter: “When I was young, there was a Christmas, my mother brought a few apples, and the size was different. I saw the red and the middle at first sight. Big apple, and I really want it. At this time, my mother put the apple on the table and asked me and my brother John: Which one do you want? I just wanted to say that I want the big apple, then John I spoke first and said what I wanted to say. My mother listened and glanced at him and blamed him for saying: Good children must learn to give good things to others, not always thinking about themselves.”
“So, in order to get the praise of my mother, I took the opportunity to change my mouth and said: 'Mom, I want the smallest one, leave the big apple to John!' Mom listened, really very happy, put that red and big Apple rewarded me, but John only got a small apple. From then on, in order to get what I want, I will pretend to be true to my inner thoughts and lie. When I go to middle school, I want to get what I want, to satisfy My own lusts, I will use whatever means, then learn to fight, steal, drug, robbery, killing, until now, I was imprisoned for life.”
A famous person from the White House wrote this: “When I was a child, my father had a birthday, my mother brought a few apples. My brothers and I are vying to be big, but my mother holds the biggest and reddest apple in her hands. , said to us: 'Very good, children, you all said the truth, this apple is the biggest red and the best, everyone wants it. But there is only one big apple, let's make a game, I Divide the lawn in front of the door into three pieces. Each of you is responsible for trimming it. Whoever does the best and the best, who is eligible to get it!‘”
“As a result, I won the biggest apple through my own efforts. I am very grateful to my mother. She made me understand the simplest and most important truth: if you want to get the best, you must strive for the first. She We have been educating us all the time. In our home, what good things you want will be won through competition. It is fair. If you want something, you must work hard and pay for it!”
It is also divided into apples. A mother asks the child to disguise herself by lying, so that she can slide to the abyss step by step; another mother asks the children to tell the true thoughts and guide them to be an honest and hard worker. An inadvertent move changed the child's life. The mother's push of the cradle may not only promote the child to become a talent, but may also inadvertently plant fallen seeds for the child.