Some children came back from kindergarten, and they talked about what happened in the kindergarten all the way. It became a “small talk”, and it was not easy to stop when it was said. Parents must not be children. This kind of “inexhaustible” seems impatient, or let the child stop saying that this is not right. In fact, it is good to say a lot, even if he still can't say clearly.

 

 

　　Hao Ran is already 4 years old and started kindergarten at the age of three and a half. After a few months of kindergarten, Hao Ran really likes to tell her mother about the kindergarten every night, what game did I have today, and which children exchanged toys, which two children fightd… Although the expression is not very clear, But he is always interested. Sometimes my mother asks him some questions and will be happy to answer.

　　Parents may have this experience. After returning home, kindergarten children are often happy to talk to their parents about their kindergarten. This is what we call “learning tongue.” Parents should not ignore the child's “learning tongue” because it is very meaningful for the child's psychological development. As a parent and family, you should take your child's “learning tongue” seriously, and guide, encourage or comfort it properly. Depending on the situation, don't get bored or even ridicule the child's “learning tongue” behavior.

　　1. Promote parent-child feelings

　　Judging from the law of children's psychological development, the development of children's language has entered the stage of language activities after the stage of understanding language. Children's “learning tongue” reflects their need to speak. They talk to their parents about what they want to do in the kindergarten. They also respect and trust their parents. Parents listen carefully. Children are more willing to be close and love their parents. The relationship between parents and children will increase.

　　2. Good mental health

　　The child “learns tongue” may say that he is happy, so that he is happy and maintains a happy state of mind, which is good for physical and mental health. The child's unhappy things also caused a deep feeling of depression. Parents can understand the child's psychological condition and cooperate with the kindergarten to educate the child.

　　3. Exercise thinking and expression skills

　　When children “learn tongues”, they are also the most active time. When he recalls the activities of the day, he will use the language as complete and as accurate as possible to express his thoughts. This is also important for improving thinking ability and language expression.

　　Xiaobian has something to say: This kind of narrative of the child not only enhances the child's logical ability and expressive ability, but also enhances the relationship between the parents and the child. It really kills two birds with one stone.